Being Bossy Social Story

This social story helps children understand what it means to be bossy and how it can affect their friendships. It explains that while it’s okay to have ideas and make choices for themselves, it’s not kind to try to control what other people do.
 
The story shows how being too bossy can sometimes upset friends or make them not want to play. It gently encourages children to listen to others, share ideas, and work together instead.
 
The focus is on helping children build positive social skills, respect other people’s choices, and enjoy more cooperative and friendly play with others.
 
What’s Inside?
A 12-page social story
A shortened, hands-on version with removable picture pieces children can place on each page for added engagement
Ebook teaching slides suitable for small groups or whole-class lessons
 
Why Use This Social Story?
Social stories explain situations in simple, calm ways that are easy for kids to understand. They help children learn about social skills, expectations, and everyday situations. Social stories are especially helpful for kids on the autism spectrum or those who feel anxious when they don’t know what to expect.
 
How to Use This Story:
Read it with your child in a quiet setting where you can focus together.
Start by reading it twice with your child, then go over it regularly to reinforce the ideas.
Try to include the story in your child’s daily routine.
If the story is about changing a behaviour, read it when the behaviour happens (but not as a punishment).
Give lots of praise and keep the experience positive.
 
To make the story last, you might consider putting it in a display book or laminating the pages for regular use.